Apparently at school pick up today (husband went for pick up ) my 6th grader was mouthing off and crying when her father told her hair was all messed up. Alright he doesn't have a smooth way of saying things like I do, but that's no reason for her to go off like that. So he calmed her down and took her for a treat. WTF.
Calming her down is ok, but rewarding that behaviour with a treat is obnoxious. Now this won't happen with me, but if when she goes off like that with me, I calm her down, make my point and done. I am so not treating her infact depending upon the severity I might be grounding her.
For this reason my girl has started the habit of saying that her father is awesome and stuff.
Now last weekend hw actually has the nerve to ask her who creates most of the fight at home and she points to me. All the treats he is buying her are working.
And all this in the middle of looking for a marriage counsellor. 🤦
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